bears, cubs ,briefs and speedos. real laid back, all around geeky fella
Anonymous said: Hello Mr. McQuaig (I'm sorry if I messed up your name >< ) I'm seeking advice... I recently came out, am only 18, and I've been dreaming of finding someone (I'm a virgin, never dated, only one LDR which ended, never kissed, etc) I've found myself attracted to bigger and stronger guys (height diff is cute, I'm 5'6'' in height ^^; ) Dreaming of cooking for, cuddling with and just sharing a loving life together…but people say I'm stuck in my dreams too much and I fear of rejection/messing up :(
There are plenty of bears and cubs out there looking for you. Not everyone wants to be a over-sexed, pervert, porn guy with a thing for glory holes and seducing bubbas.
There are plenty of guys who want to meet someone like you and have the same dream.
Get on Bear 411, or Facebook, and Bear Forrest and start meeting guys. Ask lots of questions and be up front about what you want - don’t do anything you don’t want to and be patient. You might not get it right the first time. Rejection is part of the game. Trust me, you have lots of extra lives to hit Start and try again!